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Archive for April, 2010

Success Doesn’t Mean Suffering

April 25th, 2010

I was taught suffering equal success. You have to work hard in life to make anything happen. Sometimes you do, but I am learning often you don’t. Sometimes good things just happen and require very little effort.

The hit book The Secret, and movie of the same title, popularized the notion of manifesting. “Go through the drive-in, shout into the clown’s face, drive up, and pick up your order,” it seemed to say. In my experience, manifesting isn’t that pat. I wish I had “the secret” for it, but I don’t.

I do know people, places, things, circumstances, and events seem to line up for me when I am operating from joy, or as Walter Russell said, doing what I love to do.

When my primary motivation is connection and contribution, I am operating for the highest good for myself and others. The result may not be that originally I envisioned, but it’s almost always a positive one.

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Easier Said than Done

April 12th, 2010

Additional thoughts on how to survive the new economy. Spring has sprung in Asheville and you can feel the dark mood lift—for now. Winter’s cold took its toll. At least that’s what most folks are saying, but I believe there’s more to it. The weather reflects something more profound: the death of life as we knew it.

Many haven’t articulated it—most aren’t even conscious of it—but there’s a heaviness hanging in the air that’s like a dense, damp fog. Even those not affected by the economy can sense it: a shift is taking place.

A lot of people, including me, have speculated on where we’re headed, but we can only speculate. None of us has a crystal ball. The only thing we know for sure is that change is inevitable. We cannot keep on keeping on like we have been.

Last week, I shared my strategy for surviving and thriving in the new economy: find the “sweet spot” between your mission and the market. It’s a simple strategy, yet a hard one to implement.

I am lucky; I’m clear on my mission: “to help professionals stand in their power by becoming the full expression of all they are,” but my understanding of the market is murkier. The million dollar question is how to make my mission relevant to these times.

I have some ideas;  I’m even writing a book on one. Only time will tell if I’m on target.

For now, all I can do is stay hyper-alert and not cave into fear and feelings of lack. I will seek new ways to serve and be grateful for all that I have.

One of the things I am most grateful for is you. Thank you for your reading this blog.

P.S. I’d love your thoughts. What is your strategy for surviving and thriving in the new economy?

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