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Archive for September, 2010

Begin Dying Today

September 10th, 2010

And live life now. I’m in Machu Picchu, Peru, with my dear friend Andrew over the next week. This trip has been on both of our “bucket lists.” Bucket list is a term that came into popular vernacular after the 2007 Rob Reiner film The Bucket List. It details all those things you’d like to do before you “kick the bucket.”

A few weeks ago, I went to a lecture at the Rubin Museum in New York on how to die. The lecture was a part of the museum’s Tibetan Book of Dead Book Club series. During it, the speaker suggested that the way we die is the way we live. His comment got me thinking: I want to see life as an adventure, and I hope to approach death with the same curiosity.

Instead of fearing death, I want to embrace it. According to Buddhism, death and life are but two sides of the same coin. Death is a natural part of life, rather than something separate.

The speaker continued: “Attachment to life spoils life itself.”  Perhaps by beginning to die today, we begin truly living.

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A Trip of Lifetime

September 6th, 2010

Traveling with intention. Have you ever stumbled upon a book that made your world a little larger? Years ago, I found a wonderful book by prolific author Joseph Dispenza, The Way of the Traveler: Making Every Trip a Journey of Self-Discovery. Little did I know then that Joseph would become a valued mentor and dear friend.

In his book, Joseph says travel is an excellent means for spiritual growth and self-discovery when fueled by intention. He writes: “Travel in the outer world is a metaphor for the epic journey inward. And the reward for this sacred sojourn is the spiritual gift of grace: the grace of peace, the grace of self-knowledge, the grace of wisdom.

To guide readers along this path, Joseph offers a series of insightful exercises. One of my favorites is to pack those values you would like to take along with you on your trip.

Friday, I leave for Peru. My good friend Andrew and I are visiting the sacred site of Machu Picchu. It’s a trip that’s been on both of our “bucket lists.”

In preparation for the trip, I am following Joseph’s advice. I wrote five values in my travel journal that I wanted to accompany me on the trip. They are: openness, insight, inspiration, gratitude, and connection.

I am not sure what to expect, but this I know: I will returned a changed man.

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