In her wonderful book, Loving Yourself: Four Steps to a Happier You, Daphne Rose Kingma shares an old fable about the creation of the world. “…it is said that there’s an angel who whispers a message to each soul who comes to earth, a message of instruction about what each soul is supposed to do here when it arrives. Although many people wondered what complicated instructions the angel might have given each soul, the angel’s message was simple. It consisted of one word: give.” Kingma goes on to say that one of the deepest paths to loving ourselves are those in which we serve others.
Archive for the ‘calling’ Category
Why You Are Here
January 1st, 2012
How to Find Work You Love
December 26th, 2010
Don’t be bored at work. The more you know about yourself, the better the chances are of finding fulfilling work. In finding a career that is your calling, seek to understand your:
Passion. The most common mistake people make in choosing a career is doing something simply because they are good at it. Know your strengths, but find work that brings you joy.
Personality Traits. Are you analytical, emotional, imaginative, or super productive? Do you enjoy collaborating or working alone? Personality profiles such as the Myers-Briggs Indicator, DISC, and the Enneagram are invaluable tools for better understanding our preferences and motivations.
Ideal Work Environment. I have found that even more important than the job title or duties is the work environment. What is yours? Do you thrive in an environment that allows you to work outdoors, with autonomy, or with people? Whatever the factors may be, determine your four to seven “nonnegotiables.”
Values. Are you motivated by position, status, titles, and money? Does beauty move you? Do you love to be around people? When does time fly for you? Be clear about what you value.