Randy Siegel builds the people who build organizations.
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One of my favorite words in the English language is the word “awe,” and it best describes my feelings about the breathtaking scenery I experienced on a recent vacation out West. I have always loved the West and try to visit the region at least once a year.
We began in New Mexico, visiting Santa Fe, Taos, and the surrounding area, and then we ventured into Colorado and visited Pagota Springs and Durango.
The landscape in the West is so different from the landscape in the East; each has its unique character and beauty. I have always felt the East represented the feminine, and the West, the masculine.
In the West, I am bowled over by the rocky mountains, arid desert, and clear light; the wide expanses of land open me up to all the possibilities of life. At home, the rounded mountains, rich soil, and lush landscape of the East ground me.
Our recent vacation once again reminded me of the importance of embracing both the ying and the yang, acknowledging the polarity of life. My friend Ruth says it best when she talks about being “both-and” in an “either-or” world.
Before sharing this month’s message, allow me to make several brief announcements:
I am now scheduling two-day personal retreats in Asheville, North Carolina, for the spring and summer for those individuals ready to take their career and life to the next level. Please contact me for information, fees, and availability.
I am also forming a Power Up group for people living in Asheville. Click here for more information.
Finally, I’ve added a new worksheet that you may find helpful if this month’s message resonates with you.
This month, we’ll examine the power of being present.
On Being Present
All right, I confess; I am one of the 1.5 million people worldwide who downloaded Oprah Winfrey’s online book group on Eckhart Tolle’s latest book A New Earth. I was curious about the technology and even more interested in the subject. For those of you who don’t know, Eckhart Tolle writes about the importance of being present.
We hear a lot these days about being present, but what does it really mean? Perhaps you already know the "fully present" person. When you’re with him, he makes you feel like talking to you is the single, most important thing in the world. You feel seen, heard, understood, and, yes, loved.
I bet you also know people who aren’t so present. You’re talking, and they’re looking around, have that glazed look on their face, or nodding their heads impatiently waiting for you to pause so they can interject a point.
I don’t know anyone who is present all the time, but I have run across a few who are present most of the time. They are wildly attractive. People with presence are charming, charismatic, and considered excellent communicators.
Chances are you’ve been present before, although you may not have known it. You know you are present when you are in the present and not thinking about the future and past. You know you are present when your head, heart, and gut are united in the moment, and time slows down or stops all together. You know you are present when you feel energized and alive, yet you also feel centered and calm. And finally, you know you are present when you aren’t fearful. You may experience love when you are present; I feel the presence of God.
While I don’t profess to be an expert on presence, I am working to be present more in my life. Here are five practices I’ve found particularly helpful in becoming more present.
The good news is that the moment you are aware that you are not present, you
Ignore stray thoughts that flit across your mind and try to distract you. If you don’t pay them attention they won’t hook you. Consider these thoughts as passing clouds.
We are born with presence. As babies our heads weren’t yet filled with thoughts. As babies, we only knew how to deal with what was right in front of us at the moment.
Watch what happens when a newborn baby is brought into a room. Everyone's attention shifts to the baby. People smile and forget about their problems if only for a few minutes. The baby isn’t doing anything special--just being there--yet everyone feels a little better in his or her presence.
When you are present you are like that baby, you don’t have to do or say anything; people just feel better in your presence.
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